The Need For Approval

Patricia Lynn Asher Says Black is Beautiful, hey who am I to argue that? Black Americans are people too. However, I believe she just Needs Approval as she unexpectedly drops by to see my mother. I’m not here to disagree with her statement, but the day she showed up to visit my mother (her GodMother) was not because she missed her or to see how she is. It was because she needed her approval. Pattie Asher was brought up to be a natural Racist, she may have not realized not really understanding what it meant or why it existed. This is how she rebelled against her parents.

Some people want to believe “racism” doesn’t exist in today’s modern Western culture. However, it’s my view as well as my experience that “racism” exists more than ever. It exists in the smallest doses in a greater quantity of human behavior.

Especially those of white human behavior with a great deal of contradiction and hypocrisy attached to it because, in the end, those white people are really not as good as they think they are. As children are growing up parents don’t teach us what “racism” is, (maybe because they don’t understand themselves). They are only familiar with the abuse and labels that come attached to racism and all the stigmas handed down from one generation to the next. Why do you think the backyard countries suffer so? When the white man killed and forced men to fight their wars and kill it left severe trauma and pain with hate in the mix.

Yet a person quickly learns through harsh negative and sometimes physical and verbal abusive experiences how deeply it affects us emotionally and mentally. Growing up our neighbors Greg and Donna Asher (deceased) lived in Friendly Hills. Which is uptown Whittier, Ca They are typically all American white families gone diversified.

I can recall a number of times Donna Asher ran over to our home to ask my mother for answers to questions about raising her kids. A typical white woman needs someone to explain it to her since she can’t figure it out on her own. Donna’s own mother at the time was still alive. I don’t know if white women realize this, but they always look to women of color for answers to life, instead of just dealing with it. My mom has her family to care for and here she is explaining things to Donna a typical white woman who stays home. My mother never stayed home, she always worked.

I recall many times Donna Asher was a real bitch to me because it pleased her to pick on a kid who wasn’t white-skinned. I have a good memory, especially putting up with other people’s shit! However years passed and one day the phone rings it was her lovely daughter Pattie Asher, blonde hair, blue eyes snotty bitch beautiful but a real snob, who decides to call my mother (being her Godmother) only to seek her approval again.

It was Patti’s attitude at that moment when I answered the phone she behaved like a snotty shit, as she’s always been. with an attitude of thinking she is better than me. She asked who is this? When I replied, her nasty voice in how she spoke to me defined her true character, which is lacking. I decided to hang up on her since I felt I had the choice of not subjecting myself to her ignorant bullshit.

Lo and behold years later that same blonde bitch shacks up with a black kid from Oakland, Ca who was beating her up at one point and later got her pregnant (whom she was in love with or maybe just rebelling against her daddy). This was so amazingly wonderful just to know she had a very rude awakening in her life only to end with her father Greg Asher disowning her as his daughter. As Greg, said, “You ruined your life”. Haha well sorry Papa I couldn’t find a whiteboy who was a doctor to marry me!!

Greg was so bothered by this entire situation he never spoke to Patti (his daughter) again.  Just as he never spoke to his only sister who married a black man years prior. Honestly, I like Greg Asher as a person he used to make me laugh; he had no problem with us Mexican folks, but he still knew he had the greater privilege (which of course is an illusion). Funny, how it’s only a concept. Yet when it came to black folk he was as racist as Hitler was toward the Jews.

I guess I have to admit it’s terrible of me to silently mock the unwanted Ms. Asher as she sat at my parent’s table the last time I saw her trying to convince everyone in the room that “black is beautiful”. However, she deserves what she got, the rude awakening. But in turn why? she came over was not because she really wanted to visit. It was because she needed my mother’s approval. She needed it because she wasn’t getting it from her own parents.

Now don’t misunderstand my words, I am not belittling the fact she is being mistreated by her boyfriend, no female deserves that. Frankly, I could care less what type of man she dates, it’s her fucked up attitude that pisses me off.

What I am talking about is all the times this ratchet little bitch behaved the way she did to me for no apparent reason than just to be nasty as she chooses as her mother Donna did. (Her underlying racist attitude no one speaks of).

The uncanny remarks, the put-downs, the mocking and white dominating attitude towards a kid of color (me), and for what? This bitch didn’t know any more than I did at the same age. Now she is getting a taste of her own medicine from her own father, who disowned her, which was now a harsh reality to cope with.

Of course, she was still a snotty little cunt, but her demeanor was different in some way that particular day, she was embarrassed and felt ashamed. Her insecurities had surfaced more than ever from her own personal circumstances she had no control over. What I will say on a positive note is her mother was there to help from a tragic abusive situation and Patti gave birth to a healthy and beautiful little girl. 

Jeff Asher from Uptown Whittier California

Patti Asher’s brother Jeff Asher of Whittier, Ca another racist ignorant asshole who talks shit about people on “welfare” without knowing the facts or politics behind it. Yet Jeff forgets the only reason he has a job is because of his father Greg. Jeff was busted for driving a car while his friend purchased drugs and he did 3 years in prison before he went to work for his father. He was adorable a child, but under his not-so-tuff exterior, I’m sure he’s a big love bug. Just don’t behave like uneducated white trash it doesn’t suit you. We use to be friends and play together as children, it’s terrible though of all the shit in society can change people and how they see each other years later.

Tip of the Day, the IMMIGRANTS OF ASIAN descent who come here to this country are ALLOWED to apply for CAPI at the Welfare office. The State of California has no problem giving these IMMIGRANTS money being IMMIGRANTS. They have NO CITIZENSHIP, their kids have them collect it and it’s over $1000 a month, which is more than any single mother will get with kids or a person who worked all their life on Social Security.  And social security is so the politicians can rape it.

The USA Corp is a very RACIST CORPORATION and allows millions of IMMIGRANTS TO COLLECT WELFARE at the Expense OF TAX PAYERS!  Just like they allow all other IMMIGRANTS, Russians, Polish, and Armenians with their EB Visa to come to this country and pay the Government a hefty profit. These mother fuckers never leave after having one kid to keep them in the country and most never become citizens!  THIS ENTIRE USA SYSTEM IS FRAUD, JUST ASK UNCLE SAM!

YET IT’S MEXICANS WHO ARE BEATEN AND DEPORTED FROM THIS COUNTRY, CALI WAS ONCE A PART OF MEXICO BEFORE THE WHITE MAN CREATED THAT BORDER. I don’t understand why the white man thinks he has any right to create these bullshit laws no one agrees to or understands, but place a piece of shit like Trump in office and he can stir the pot to create hate!

For all those with an EB Visa, it’s their ticket in because the USA Corp makes fucken CASH, millions letting everybody in, but treats the Mexican people like shit, they don’t have money for an EB Visa. The reason I know this about the Capi I once worked for the department. So I am aware of their dirty secrets. So before you talk shit, get your facts straight!!! BTW Jeff everyone is a fucken slave in this country because they work paying a tax that is FRAUD!!!