I viewed the movie "FLING" the
other day and it's sexual in nature but gives an idea of the
consequences people refuse to take into consideration when they are
young experimenting life. Mid - life change is between the ages of 28 up
until you are 40 years of age, then your perspective changes. During
this time young people are sexual with various partners. Pregnancy and
venereal disease will occur and most young people never stop to think
about the consequences until it's too late. Fling demonstrates a couple
who has an
"OPEN" RELATIONSHIP", BUT HER BOYFRIEND IS RECKLESS ONCE HE DISCOVERS
HIS GIRLFRIEND IS NOW PREGNANT HE IS FACED WITH REAL LIFE
DECISIONS.
Of course she doesn't know who the father is. After the relationship
fails and the boyfriend has time to reflect on life and grow up. He
revisits his old friends from the past at a show several years later and
walks right out the door. After looking everyone over my perspective was
he couldn't stand to be around any of them anymore. He grew up and
realized a lot about his past mistakes.
This guy was given shit for his behavior and it was well deserved, but
nothing really changed all that much among the people this couple hung
out with. The dynamics hadn't changed but his perspective did that he
didn't need to be around those people because most of them refused to
move on and grow up that was the "irony". I personally never
thought much of people at 50 who still hang out with high school
friends. As for
"OPEN RELATIONSHIPS" I view it as
dangerous. Isn't the point of being in a relationship "exclusivity" to
prevent disease and develop trust based on love, being with one person should be enough?
Message to all young people be careful of the choices and friends you
make, it weighs on your life more than you realize. Being too sexual with
too many partners and reckless behavior with booze and drugs will affect
your life choices and the journey you take.