DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS A SILENT AND DEEPLY ROOTED PROBLEM - LOVED

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS A SILENT AND DEEPLY ROOTED PROBLEM - LOVED - ANGRYGIRL FEMINIST.COM

IF SOMEONE TELLS YOU TO JUMP IN FRONT OF A CAR TO PROVE YOUR LOVE TO THEM WOULD YOU DO IT? IF SOMEONE TOLD YOU TO STEP OFF A WINDOW LEDGE 5 STORIES DOWN AND KILL YOURSELF, WOULD YOU DO IT? IF YOU DID THESE ACTIONS WHO IS RESPONSIBLE, YOU FOR LISTENING AND FOLLOWING THOSE DIRECTIONS, OR THE PERSON WHO IS MIND FUCKING YOU?

HAVE YOU EVER FOUND YOURSELF DOING SOMETHING FOR SOMEONE BECAUSE THEY TOLD YOU TO DO IT? TO PROVE YOUR LOVE TO THEM, OR NOT PROVE YOUR LOVE - THEY JUST TOLD YOU TO SEE IF YOU WOULD DO WHAT THEY SAID TO DO?

IF YOU HAVE FOLLOWED THROUGH WITH SOMEONES SUGGESTIONS THEN PEOPLE HAVE MORE MIND CONTROL OVER YOU THAN YOU REALIZE AND THEY DO NOT LOVE YOU! LOVE DOESN'T COME FROM CHOKING YOU OUT EVEN WHEN A MAN WANTS TO FUCK FROM BEHIND. LOVE DOESN'T COME FROM TELLING YOU TO JUMP IN FRONT OF A CAR AND KILL YOURSELF. LOVE DOESN'T COME FROM BLACK EYES INNER FRUSTRATION AND ALLOWING SOMEONE ELSE TO USE YOU AS A PUNCHING BAG. IT'S ABUSE AND MINDFUCKING!

WHAT I HAVE NOTICED IN SOCIETY RIGHT NOW PEOPLE HAVE BECOME OVER-AGGRESSIVE AND DON'T CARE. THEY ARE EXTREMELY DISRESPECTFUL AND ABUSIVE IN PRIVATE AND PUBLIC SPACES. ON YOUTUBE PEOPLE ARE SO DISGUSTING WITH THE LIES THEY TELL, TO GAIN VIEWERS, THE FRAUD THEY COMMIT AND THE ABUSIVE BEHAVIORS IN SOCIETY HAVE BECOME SO VIOLENT. THIS KIND OF ABUSE I'M GOING TO SPEAK ON IS BEHIND CLOSED DOORS WHICH IS EVERYWHERE AND COMES IN THE FORMS OF MANIPULATION AND MIND FUCKING WITHIN RELATIONSHIPS.

THE MOVIE I SAW YESTERDAY WAS CALLED "LOVE" THIS ABUSIVE MAN HAS THREE RELATIONSHIPS WITH VERY YOUNG GIRLS, HE MARRIES THEM AND THE FIRST WIFE GETS AWAY, BUT SHE LATER HAS TO TESTIFY AGAINST HIM IN COURT. HIS PATTERN OF ABUSE MIND FUCKS THESE WOMEN INTO HURTING OR KILLING THEMSELF. THE LAST WIFE THROWS HERSELF IN FRONT OF A CAR TO PROVE HER LOVE TO HIM. IS THIS LOVE?  HOW IMPRESSIONABLE IS THE MIND?

THERE ARE TWO COMPONENTS TO THIS FILM I FOUND ANNOYING. ROBIN WRIGHT PLAYS THE FIRST WIFE AND HER CHARACTER IS SO FUSTRATING BECAUSE SHE CAN'T HATE OR HURT ANYONE INCLUDING THOSE WHO HAVE ABUSED AND WRONGED HER.  

THE OTHER PART IS THE DIRECTOR IS FIXATED WITH A LONG SCENE OF ROBIN SWIMMING NAKED IN THE POOL (THIS IS PERVERSE TO ME). SEE IN PLAIN SIGHT WHEN DIRECTING A MOVIE EVEN THE DIRECTOR IS A PIECE OF SHIT. TO CONTINUE, ACTUALLY, ANOTHER PART I HATE WAS HOW SHE WANTED TO SPEAK TO HER EX-HUSBAND KNOWING ALL THE ABUSE OF WHAT HE DID, AND STILL, SHE WANTED TO SEE HIM. 

THE MOVIE ENDS IN A FRUSTRATING MANNER BECAUSE HE WALKS FREE AFTER CONVINCING HIS THIRD WIFE TO KILL HERSELF. THIS PIECE OF SHIT WAS NEVER IN JAIL AND HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN.

SEAN PENN'S SCENE IS AN INTERESTING THEORY HE SPEAKS OF PEOPLE BEING MAGNETS, CLINGING TO EACH OTHER UNTIL THEY CANCEL EACH OTHER OUT WITH NO HELP. ALSO OF THE BOUNDARIES, PEOPLE HAVE FOR SELF-PROTECTION.  SOMETIMES THERE AREN'T ENOUGH BOUNDARIES, BECAUSE EVEN WITHIN SOCIETIES THERE ARE STILL THOSE PREDATORS WHO WANT TO KILL MIND FUCK AND ABUSE INNOCENT PEOPLE. MARK ZUCKERBERG KNOWS ALL ABOUT IT - HE GETS OFF HURTING AND KILLING CHILDREN THROUGH FACEBOOK AND SOCIETY ENGAGES IN THIS ABUSE. CERTAINLY, IT'S A WAY TO CANCEL INNOCENT CHILDREN OUT, ISN'T IT? THIS KIND OF PREDATOR SHOULD NEVER BE FORGOTTEN, BUT ELIMINATED!

ANOTHER INTERESTING POINT IS THE QUESTION OF THIS ABUSIVE MAN TEACHING HER SHE WAS A BAD PERSON, TO CONTROL HER. SHE REPLIES, HOW HER MOTHER ALSO MADE HER FEEL THAT WAY, AND SO DID A TEACHER AT HER SCHOOL, BUT THOSE EXAMPLES ARE NOT SPECIFIC ENOUGH. SHE GOES ON TO SAY HOW SHE DID BAD THINGS AND THAT MADE ME THINK WHEN KIDS ACT OUT IS FOR A REASON. WHEN PARENTS PUNISH KIDS FOR THOSE BEHAVIORS I QUESTION IF PARENTS ARE MAKING OUR CHILDREN FEEL LIKE THEY ARE BAD PEOPLE?  INSTEAD OF TRYING TO UNDERSTAND AND TALKING ABOUT THE BEHAVIOR?

The movie was disturbing but makes you realize how and see the signs of abuse in a manipulative form. When people are young is a tender age and predators of all sorts will do what they can to hurt you, just to see if you will do what they say. I'LL ASK AGAIN WHO IS RESPONSIBLE? YOU OR THE ABUSIVE MANIPULATIVE PERSON WHO MIND FUCKED YOU INTO HURTING OR KILLING YOURSELF?

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS A SILENT AND DEEPLY ROOTED PROBLEM - LOVED