20 Something Bitches

20 Something Bitches are young, foolish, have no street smarts, very insecure and immature like their shoes size, yet older men seem to be attracted to this kind of dumb-bell because she doesn’t know any better. Young 20 something males are just as foolish and know no better, it’s too because they are immature. Of course I to was naïve at that age with no voice,  everyone is, until we grow up. As for me, I grew up fast as many young girls do. However, I had a lot to be grateful for and security to a large degree, but it wasn’t always that way.

I managed on my own with the responsibility of raising a family alone, and supporting all of us, regardless it’s extremely hard and I don’t advise it. Why? Getting pregnant at 19, married to someone I never loved ad domestic abuse ended it all. It’s very common.  Now my life has changed, again being older and alone, I still have a brain, ambition and a strong will with that being said I am entitled to give this advice. Pregnancy and being alone is the topic today.

Now for those girls (not women) who come from a home of uncertainty, or any family it’s a good chance you will get pregnant and single parenting will become your predicament. And for God’s sake don’t think marriage will change it for the better, it doesn’t!!!  Not everyone, but many young females will run off with the boyfriend and end up in this situation. As so many families have broken apart (for reasons that will take to long to explain) people just won’t stop having children (regardless of age) and those kids grow up with nothing and in poverty. It’s hard to create a life built on sand.

My personal message to all those young girls on the street and living with their boyfriend (who will do nothing for you) STOP!!!! Your Living a lie and a fantasy, leave the boyfriend and find a place to go, STOP!!! Please protect yourself and DO NOT GET PREGNANT!!! Your life will not get better unless you start setting real goals in motion for yourself. You can not rely on anyone except yourself!!! The boyfriend won’t save you and either will an older man with money, he will only control you and make you feel like you owe him for saving you!

And if you think for all those smart – ass girls who think it can’t happen to you, “oh yes it can”. Those insecure tight – ass snotty bitches who look down on your peers, because of jealousy.  Never think for a minute living with your parents is a guarantee, no one has a crystal ball. Death and Divorce occur more than ever today and with influences of the internet and societies false expectations, most will fall. The family dynamics can change with a blink of an eye. Today in America and the UK there are a few million children living on the streets, from ages ranging 12 to 30 years of age. Now you may think 30 years old? 

In my opinion age is not synonymous to mental maturity.  If you started out with nothing, it’s a fight everyday to walk a straight line to avoid not getting pregnant, being arrested, strung out on drugs or getting killed when you have nothing to live for.

Working your way up  from the streets and getting into a transitional home  is the best option when you have nothing. There are many, it’s just finding the right one, which will lead you to housing yourself and getting the work or education you need. Either way the point is you have to work hard, very hard to walk that straight line and avoid these horrible areas of life that can end your life. As a human race we are born in Chaos and darkness, it’s a bitch to strive for happiness, joy, freedom and love.

The best drug in the world is to love yourself first, you will suffer with anger, depression and possible despair, but you can rise from this shit with self love, exercise, a positive attitude and self – care. Moving away from people who will drag you down, put you down and beat the shit out you is an urgency. You don’t need assholes and negative attitudes as there are far too many!

Domestic violence is common and so is sexual abuse, these are the very areas of life that are critical to understand how to fight off those predators that will seek you out, promise you the world and control your life with a smile. I have known young girls in the very predicament I speak on. recently I met a young girl 20 that living on the street since she was 12 years old is all she knows and her parents used her and the sister to collect SSI money only to steal from them.

Another young woman older is pregnant living with her boyfriend but basically homeless since they fight and she takes off, his mother mistreats her, yet she is to stubborn to change and leave. With this mindset she is will use anyone she can for money because survival is her only motive. Nothing changes until you decide to change it for the better. The problem will escalate for this young woman, once she has the kid, it will only get harder and her misery will ooze out into anger.

I have questioned myself so many times of why I date losers? Especially as I grew older I was still dating losers, rich and poor, good looking and ugly. Then I one day read, “how we feel about ourselves, is what we attract”. This was a powerful message. It literally takes a life to grow and grow up, lessons in life are very hard and painful. Some say it’s all about perception and that is true, but when the heart wants love and to feel safe no one stops to think about, “is this person good for me”?  I too have made this critical mistake and now being 54. I have changed so much to realize how many mistakes I have made and duality that dwells deep in my soul is the conflict.

I’ve come to realize I have to accept myself for who I am and be courageous, no matter who I have to defend myself with. When people are young they behave very stupid and laugh at those that are older in life. Yet they dismiss the fact that they too one day will be old and sick and will find a stupid young person laughing at you.  This fraud economy we live in has crushed jobs, the human race, destroyed people’s lives with pumping drugs into society, loss of homes and as usual politics trying to control the pussy, with abortion and prostitution!

However, when facing all this mess life can bring, your WILL OF NOT GIVING UP on yourself, is CRUCIAL and shows character and your WILL OF DETERMINATION in the face of hardships, abuse and criticism from family and friends, indicates self-love and self-respect. Trust me when I say those same people I just spoke of are not your friends and you don’t need negative family like that, “misery loves company”. I too have been betrayed in the worst way from so many friends and family.

If someone sexually abuses you go file a report with the District Attorneys office first. Have them arrested and file charges against that person. Sometimes the police department is NOT as helpful, as they should be. Everyday you live in this fucked up society, is a fight to stay alive and lessen the abuse and preserve your way of life. Follow the Road Less Traveled to live your dreams. Pregnancy you don’t want or need. It only alters your life and steals your youth, your mind and body will never be the same. This will only endure more poverty and pain! “Sisters and Brothers, Please take the Road Less Traveled!!!

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